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Wednesday, January 19, 2011

When we facing change, and which one(s) is (are) you?

To the timid, change is frightening. 
To the comfortable, change is threatening. 
To the confident, change is opportunity.
---Nido Qubein

Other symptoms of resistance that are observed are
•    Being critical •    Finding fault • Ridiculing •    Appealing to fear •    Selective use of facts •    Blaming or accusing • Sabotaging• Intimidating • Manipulating •    Distorting facts • Blocking • Undermining •    Starting rumors • Arguing •  Nodding of the head with no intention of doing (‘malicious compliance’) •    Failing to implement—just don’t do it! (The reverse Nike effect!) •    Dragging the feet •    Pretending to be ignorant— “oh if only I knew that was what youmeant!” •    Withholding key information •    Not taking action when action could be taken to prevent change from being successful
- A awful long list.

wisdom of the day!